If I read one more tweet about how relationships are supposed to be easy, or how if a man really loves you he’ll never make you cry, or that arguing leads to the demise of a relationship I am going to lose it! Seriously, who the hell came up with these naive and, dare I say, idiotic rules for relationships? I know who did … your friends, and their friends, and their friends’ friends, and so on. Yes, that’s right listening to our friends — or strangers who we call friends on Twitter or Facebook — can literally lead to you being dumped, cheated on, forgotten about, or avoided by the one you adore.
Think about this … how often do we look to others for advice or direction on what to do in our relationships? How many times have you called up your girlfriends to tell them what your boyfriend did? And ladies, we are not the only guilty parties in the bad advice pyramid scheme … Men are just as bad! And yes, I referred to bad relationship advice as a pyramid scheme, because to me, it is!
Here is how the pyramid developed: There was this one man or woman who decided they had all the answers, so they went to their friends and told them all of the “answers” to life, which evolved into those answer-loving recipients continuing to spread the answers to life all over town, which eventually ended up being told to your mom or dad, who told them to your big brother or sister, who told them to you, and you tell them to your friends. See … see, how easy it is to ride down the slippery pyramid scheme slope?